
Honestly, I am nice to everyone that I know and meet. Girls and guys. I’m always approachable. But I’m not always trying to be friends with everyone. I have to know you to want to be friends with you or actually like you, and it is a big deal because I’m not those girls who want to be friends with everyone I meet. When I’m nice and want to be friends with a girl though, that’s different because I don’t find myself wanting to be friends with that many girls. Not saying I’m a big catch for girls to be friends with either, but I don’t find many girls who are compatible with me.
I have mostly, and this is a fact, mostly only guy friends. 97% of my friends are all guys because guys aren’t catty, they’re fun, they’re chill, they hate shopping, I hate shopping. I’m the bro type. I’m the type of girl who goes out at 5 in the morning with her guy friends to Seaside, or to crack open a beer and pig out. I’m the type you call over to join a Lakers game or play Black Ops with. I’m the type who calls you bro beans. I’m not those chicks that ARE chicks around a guy. I’m actually one of the dudes, and maybe that’s why I don’t really hang out with girls. I can dress but a girl, but I’ll always be consider a dude. And when I meet girls to be friends with, I often hesitate to. Unless you’re actually NICE, and I mean genuinely nice, not sassy, because I hate sassy girls or girls who have demanding attitudes or talks about their friends behind their backs just to me, then 2 minutes later when their friends come, they’re overly obnoxious and happy to see them; I honestly hate that. I think when you become friends with someone and it’s natural, and you don’t have to try to like them, or is hesitant around them, then those are the friendships that are worth following through for.
I think maybe that’s why I cherish the very few girlfriends that I have, even if I don’t have that many. They’re perfect for me in every single way.